As a Death Midwife, also known as a Home Funeral Guide, I have the honor of serving families in Los Angeles who wish to care for a deceased loved one, at home. I am always amazed at the profound healing that takes place as a loved one is carefully bathed, anointed, dressed and lovingly prepared for burial or cremation. Family members innately know how to take care of the dead, just as we innately know how to care for a newborn. It is instinctual, and one of the few opportunities we have left to really experience the sacred mystery of life.