“You assert that FCA members usually want to use the funeral parlor’s services for burial in a cemetery. Not I! (for one) …” Dorothy, who do you believe asserted that? I certainly didn’t, and you won’t find that statement in anything I wrote above. I noted that most people will end up using a funeral home, but I didn’t state anything about most FCA members wanting one thing over another. The entire point of my article was to advocate for unconventional choices – your very own concern. Please slow down and read a little more carefully – we’re on the same side. Josh Slocum FCA