I want to be cremated and only have a coffee can as an urn, is this possible? I want a visitation and funeral(burying of the coffee can) to be done by my family and friends after cremation. Can anyone offer advice or resources? I have a burial policy, but I want most of that money to go to my family for a death celebration/vacation. Is there somewhere I can obtain the required forms (death registration, body disposal decree, etc) and all the steps to meet Alabama law so NOBODY gets the money except cremator.