My sister passed away suddenly this last week. My family was pushed aside and because it was so sudden we were not able to do much of anything. She was married and was very active in her church so they handled everything. I feel as though I was just on the side line watching the most terrible event unfold before me and I could not even honor her in any way. I think funerals are too impersonal. It would be great to be back in the time, or in a place where family took care of everything!!! I will miss my sister so much. I am planning to have an event that will honor her in the way I was not allowed to during the process of her funeral.