I unexpectedly lost my son in 2014. Devastating! Hardest decision was determining what he would want. I contacted his best friend and asked his sister. They both said cremation. It was very difficult knowing what was going to take place. However, I could not stand the thought of him lying in the ground. I have him in an urn. I visit him everyday. In my mind, he is right there with me. And, I am so happy I made the decision to cremate. I just recently moved from Texas to AZ where my only other child lives. Had my son been in a cemetery in Texas, it would have been very hard for me to move. My son moved with me to AZ.